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The Mirror With No Reflection

from Simone Salis [alt+shift+b] in technology

From lovers to spouses, from employers to parental approval, we search for ourselves in others' eyes—creating perhaps the most elaborate illusion ever sustained: that validation exists outside the self that seeks it.
12th Sep 2025

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