giving up being the chill girl

Karen Kilimnik, “going off to the Battle” tapestry – off to a glittering start, 2015

7 months ago

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+ weekly recs

3 months ago • 43 votes

always on your side

friendship is magic

4 months ago • 32 votes

grace

discernment without judgment

4 months ago • 27 votes

+ matchmaking results mostly out

4 months ago • 31 votes

present tense

Housekeeping: ask me Dear Bear questions here. The matchmaking results will be out in the next couple of days :)

4 months ago • 41 votes

Just when you thought major labels couldn't get more stupid...

23 hours ago • 2 votes

Good tokens 2025-09-05

Items of interest

2 hours ago • 1 votes

do i judge other writers?

the messy truth about writing “full-time,” and other answers to your questions (#2)

yesterday • 2 votes

Is This Anything? 16

few attempts

2 days ago • 5 votes

Is the Bubble Bursting?

I'm making this previously paywalled article available to everybody

3 days ago • 5 votes